Family of four with all four paws on the floor, waiting patiently for attention
Knowing how to react to your dog jumping on you is super important because our initial response tends to be the incorrect one. Whether you are the owner of a jumping pup or you have a friend who is trying to break their pooch of a hopping habit, it’s important to know how to react when the pup turns into a jumping bean.
Why do dogs jump in the first place? The main reason unwanted jumping occurs is simple: human attention. At some point in your pup’s life, they jumped on a human to catch their attention, and guess what, it worked! They get the attention in many ways, pets, ear scratches, all the things they love the most. So naturally, the dog made the association.
Dog thought: “Jump on human = get attention. I’m always going to jump on humans because I LOVE attention!”
Small, medium, or large, all sizes can learn to keep their paws to themselves
Then as the puppy gets bigger, it is deemed unwanted behavior by the owner, but the dog thinks everything is just fine the way it is because he still receives the attention he’s seeking.
Read on for tips on fixing this problem behavior.
IGNORE
Sweet sibling pups demonstrating “all-four-on-the-floor”
The best thing you can do while a pup is jumping on you is to completely ignore them! As cute as they are when looking up at you, you must resist the urge to pet and talk or give any type of positive attention to them until they have “all-four-on-the-floor”! Do not touch them, talk to them, or even look at them. Stand still, arms folded, staring in the distance. Essentially, become boring. Your calm and quiet energy is vital. If your pup jumps on you while you are sitting, stand up and ignore them.
IMPORTANT! Avoid giving them negative attention, too. A pup, much like some humans, value any type of attention. If you are reprimanding or pushing them off, the result is the same - they got your attention and will continue the behavior.
THE COLD SHOULDER
This rottie gal is the queen of the polite sit
If standing silently without eye contact and interaction is still not working, turn your back to them. A quiet, still, disengaged human is very boring to a dog (insert big dog yawwwwn) and they will eventually lose interest in you or at least calm down enough to stop jumping on you.
Let your guests know that you are training your dog and to please not give them any attention until they are calm. This is hard for humans to do because we’re thinking like a human and think it might be rude to ignore the dog, just as it’s rude to ignore a person, especially when you’re a guest. That’s why giving your guest permission to ignore your dog is so important.
RE-ENTER
In some cases, ignoring them and giving them the cold shoulder may not work if the dog has been conditioned to jump for attention. Take the training to the next level by completely leaving the room or the house when your pup pounces. If he jumps, go out the door. Then, re-enter. If he jumps again, leave through the door again. You might have to do this many, many times before he learns that he’ll receive no attention from anyone that comes through the door if he jumps on them. Consistency and patience will pay off!
GIVE ATTENTION
Not only is it important to know when not to give attention, it is equally important to know when to reward your pup with attention. Once he has all four paws on the floor, preferably in a sit, you can and should give attention immediately to reinforce the wanted behavior. But, be prepared to go back to step 1 if they start to jump again.
Boston siblings showing off how well-mannered they are!
BE CONSISTENT
This type of training is only effective if the owner puts in consistent effort. Everyone in the household, including friends, family members, and even acquaintances and service providers, should be told by the owner the steps to take once your pup starts springing up like a pogo stick. Insist that your pals (and you) follow the protocol, which is to ignore the dog if they jump. Soon your pup won’t be tempted to give an airborne greeting, and you won’t be embarrassed by their behavior.